It is what it is...

So, over Christmas vacation my brother in law Eric mentioned that he detested the idiomatic phrase "it is what it is." What does it even mean? - he remarked - and that it seemed so superfluous and unnecessary to say such a phrase. That got me to thinking, and I disagree with Eric's viewpoint. I like this phrase, as simple and supposedly self-evident as it may seem. I believe its a highly useful, nuanced and contextual phrase. Most of the time it is said in response to something that can't be changed, shouldn't be messed with, should be accepted at face value, and should be appreciated as such. But, depending on the context, it can have other meanings. What does it mean to you? Do you detest it, tolerate it, or embrace it? Do you use it or not use it (ever)? Is this the lamest post you ever read on my blog? Are you surprised that I would even waste the time to write/ journal about a silly little idiomatic phrase? Hmmm... Oh, and my co-worker just informed me that she heard on the radio that this phrase ranks as one of the top 10 most annoying phrases in the English language. So, it seems as if the majority stands with Eric. Oh well. It is what it is. Surely you knew that I would end with that. :)